Locktober Advice
Welcome to MissB’s Locktober Preparation Guide
Locktober is just around the corner, for bitches diving into the world of chastity, it's a month-long journey that requires preparation, dedication, and a clear understanding of your own capabilities. Here's some advice to help you navigate Locktober successfully, ensuring that your experience is unforgettable and well prepared.
The Mind
“Why” will keep you going:
Before you even think about a cage, get clear on your reasons for participating in Locktober. Whether it’s for personal growth, enhancing Our existing dynamic, or exploring your kinks, having a strong “why” will be your anchor when challenges arise. Whatever the reason, I will be the beacon leading you ahead of the challenges, My pleasure will be your main focus on staying the course. I will become the “why” and My approval will become your fuel to keep going.
Test your self-control:
Start practicing self-control now. Delay your gratification, edge as you let your mind get overwhelmed with desires. Now, envision yourself resisting those desires to the point of madness. This is the mental game we’ll play throughout Locktober. Be ready to be tormented by your own thoughts. The more you resist now, the stronger you’ll become. When you finally get permission to release, the release will be all the more intense.
Identify your Triggers:
What drives you wild? What makes you weak in the knees? Identify your triggers and be prepared to confront them head-on. More than likely I already know what they are, but just to be safe make sure you tell Me ahead of the time so I can keep you safe from them. We wouldn’t want your triggers to be used against you in this already difficult month, would we?
Communication is the key 😉
Never underestimate the power of communication. Share your thoughts, concerns and experiences with Me every step of the way. I hold the power and open dialogue ensures a safe and fulfilling journey. The trust between a submissive and their keyholder is sacred. Ensure that you stay honest about your headspace with Me to maintain a healthy dynamic. If the psychological aspects of chastity become too overwhelming, it’s important to address them promptly. Understand that it’s okay to fail, tho it will come with fines added to debt. Locktober is a challenge, and not everyone will make it through the entire month on their first try. If you need to unlock early, use it as a learning experience for next time. There is still no-nut-november to attempt after.
The body
Cage:
Take accurate measurements before selecting your cage, find the right ring and cage size. A well-fitting device is crucial for long-term wear, invest in a custom-fitted cage if possible. It should be a snug fit, secure but not constricting. Test different sizes and styles of cages to find the one that feels like a second skin. Remember, chastity is not a race to discomfort; it’s a marathon of controlled desire.
Grooming:
Moisturise the area already to ensure smooth, taken care of skin, which will reduce friction. Shave before putting on a cage, preventing any unwanted hair from being caught. This is not just for comfort but also for presenting your most pristine form to Me. After all I will be the one inspecting the cage checks regularly, it can’t be an eyesore.
Test run it till October:
To succeed, you need to be comfortable wearing a cage 24/7 for entire month, take week at the time. When putting on your cage or removing it to clean, apply a thin film of lube to all parts that contact your skin. This will help eliminate chafing and ensure a comfortable experience. For the base ring, use an unscented lotion to allow your skin to glide and avoid pinching.
Keep an eye out for signs of abrasion and sores from rubbing during test runs. If you experience any serious damage to the skin, stop and let it heal. Continuing with a cage that’s causing injury is not only painful (not in pleasurable way) but can lead to serious health issues.
The soul
Embrace the Struggle:
The first week will challenge you. You will face physical and mental hurdles, but pushing through the initial discomfort will lead to a deeper appreciation for your state of denial. It gets easier after first week!
Embrace the challenges of your new routine. Mornings will be a test of your dedication, take time to adjust to the cage’s presence. Patience is a virtue, and with time, discomfort will give way to a new sense of normalcy.
Take it one day at a time. Celebrate each successful day of Locktober, and don’t be disheartened by setbacks. It’s about personal growth and building the connection in this dynamic.
Find pleasure in the frustration. Let the denial heighten your senses and your devotion. Explore sex-toys and learn how to experience orgasms within the confines of your cage, if specifically permitted by Me.
Remember, Locktober is not just about the lock&cage; it's about locking into a deeper level of submission and self-control. As MissB, I command you to prepare thoroughly, embrace the challenges ahead, and revel in the power exchange that defines our dynamic. Your dedication and obedience will bring you closer to the true essence of your submission.
Get Ready for the Challenge!
Locktober is not for the faint of heart. It’s a test of endurance, of willpower, and of self-control. Furthermore just because Locktober ends on 31st, it doesn’t mean you get to release without My explicit say so, your mind, body and soul is in My hands until you are set free.
Are you ready to take on the challenge? Are you ready to submit to My pleasure and guidance?
If you’re ready to embark on this journey, send a tribute tell Me all about your preparations and lets start getting ready!
Post-Locktober:
Reflect and Reset
After Locktober is over, take time to reflect on your experience and make note of everything. What worked? What didn’t? Use this insight to improve your approach for future chastity sessions.
No Nut November
When Locktober ends and you’re not ready to give up the challenge, consider begging to keep going into No Nut November. It’s another opportunity to test your willpower and explore your sexuality.
Chastity is a personal journey, what works for one person may not work for another. Listen to your body, communicate openly then adjust as necessary. With the right preparation and mindset, Locktober can be a deeply rewarding experience that enhances your sexual exploration and self-awareness.
